Jillian's Story

2011-09-13T17:15:00.013-05:00

Hard to believe it's already time to recap our summer highlights. It really went by so quickly.

June started off with a bang! Well, more like two painful "CLICKS." Jillian finally wore me down and I consented to getting her ears pierced. And I must say I've been really impressed. She has cleaned her ears faithfully and we've passed the three month mark without any infection or irritation. This picture was taken just after the tears started drying up. It hurt but she was so brave. Way to go Birdie, momma's proud!

We also took a trip to Michigan to see her Uncle Barry, Aunt Carol and cousins Val, Blake and Delaney. She was thrilled Uncle Barry let her drive his boat. And Lansing has a seriously fun zoo. Kind of fun to take her to places where her cousins played as children.

July started off in the right direction. South! We had our annual beach trip with another part of the Hintz clan.

Jillian couldn't get enough of the waves. And each day they got bigger and rougher. Lucky girl has lots of cousin's that did a great job of tossing her high in the air.......over and over....and over. Thank you Nathan, Lucas, Lindsay and Sam who probably pulled the most wave duty.

She also filled her time this summer with ballet camps. She attended one with a Superhero theme and also one about fairy tales. In addition to ballet camp she went to Camp Tekoa in Hendersonville. Same camp that my mom, my Aunt, my brother and I attended as children. Keeping the tradition alive!

One of the biggest events of the summer was learning to ride her bike. It really was so wonderful to be able to share that with her. Frank and I missed lots of "firsts" those first 16 months of life, but not this one! And it's on video as well, so I'll be showing that every chance I get. (If you're on Facebook it's on there already)

And Jillian and Frank spent their usual time playing in ridiculously chilly water. I'm happy to be there on the banks to snap the pictures.

She was also able to spend time with her Uncle Gordon when he came up with Uncle Chad for a summer visit.

There were lots of fun moments with friends and anything water related.

And my girl is growing up way too fast. Here she is on her first day of Kindergarten!!!! Jillian was fortunate to be able to share such an exciting day with her friend Aidan. Not only is his family here in our same neighborhood, but the kids were in the same class, at their Montessori school, for three years. Now, as they head into year four together Frank's "keeping his eye on Aidan." ; ) They are so stinking cute together aren't they.

We also had a great time at the Western NC State Fair. It was our fourth year and keeps getting more fun each year. As usual we teamed up with other local families with daughters from China. And mom even joined Jillian in the arm painting experience this year.

Well.....that should catch you up for now. It was a great summer and so glad we could share some of the highlights. Now it's time to rest.

2011-05-25T14:22:00.008-05:00

Everyone's great here. Jillian continues to wow us and we are looking forward to a fun summer. Here are the highlights of the last few months.

Taking care of Wallace just like she used to take care of Luray....

Her new scooter....

Fun at the park with Jenna.....

Playing with Jenna at the local kids museum...

Here they are playing veterinarians....

Then came Easter. Jillian managed to get an egg with money in it at the neighborhood Easter egg hunt!

Here she is at church putting a flower in the flower cross.

And as soon as Spring had sprung we headed outdoors for lots of fun....

Jillian is also enjoying her Grandmommy's new house. It's in a quaint little community that has a lake, chickens and turkeys, goats to feed and strangely enough an albino peacock which is absolutely beautiful.

We also went to see a friend at the beach. The weather was warm, but very foggy. So while we didn't get to spend much time playing on the beach we did manage to find lots of shells on our afternoon walks.

Jillian had a great time, even after falling in the water when a wave knocked her legs out from under her. She looks mad here, but she was actually just letting the water run off her arms. We had quite a few giggles over it.

And once the weather warmed up again here in the mountains we spent an afternoon picnicing up at Max Patch. It's an amazing bald about an hour away. The AT (Appalachian Trail) crosses it and so you get to see all sorts of folks, from families flying kites to grungy backpackers to horseback riders. The views are spectacular. And Wallace did well on his first visit to one of our favorite spots.

And last but not least Jillian had her ballet recital last weekend. She's in a class of about seven girls. They were crazy cute and did really well considering they're only around 5-6 years old. She wants to dance at least one more year so she can get a trophy. And I'm just a proud momma. I just admire her so much for sticking with it and being so brave up in front of all those people. Lord knows I was not a girlie girl at her age and you couldn't have gotten me up on a stage for all the candy in the world.

2011-03-15T14:19:00.008-05:00

So sorry it's been so long since my last post. Here are some pictures to catch up with the latest Jillian happenings.

November's hightlight included Jillian's 5th birthday!

This unicorn was one of her favorite gifts.

We spent Thanksgiving in Charlottesville with Frank's family and managed to get this great family photo on the first take.

Jillian loved these boots this winter.

We had another terrific year for snow. It was a headache at times but certainly helped the kids hone their sledding skills.

Wellllll sort of....

But they kept at it....this is Jillian with Lilly C. and Lilli S.

This picture was taken Christmas morning when Jillian had on her new nightgown and new robe while playing her new guitar.

Jillian also got her first sleepover sleeping bag from her Godmother, which was a huge hit!

And at the beginning of January we all got a treat when we added Wallace to the family. He is a rescue and about 3 years old. Amazing dog and he fits right in. Very naturally a happy boy. And sweet beyond description.

I love this picture of he and Halle watching the snow come down between rays of sunlight.

This is pretty much the scene whenever Jillian watches TV. One dog for each hand.

We did have some sadness when The Steelers lost the Superbowl in February. But Jillian was right there cheering them on despite a rough game.

And one other activity has been added this year in addition to ballet....Jillian has enjoyed being in the Cherub Choir at our church. Although I do confess that while she sings a lot at home she tends to enjoy looking around more when up in front of the congregation. ; )

Until next time........

2010-11-08T18:43:00.005-05:00

We've had a great time this Fall. We went to the Western NC State Fair for the third year in a row and I'm starting to get a nice collection of Jillian on the carousel.

And she and Cecelia continue to amaze their mom's with how much they change from one minute to the next. Here they are striking a pose with some big girl attitude.....

Only to turn around a few minutes later and look so sweet and innocent again.

We also took our annual trip to the Apple Orchard to pick apples and size up the pumpkins. Clearly, this one was too big for us! But, I love comparing this picture to the past two years at the same orchard. The difference is staggering. Look at those long legs!!!!

In addition to the Fair and Orchard, we went to a corn maze for the first time.

BUT, the BIGGEST event of the Fall season was Mike and Jenny's wedding. J was the flower girl and I believe she may have had the best weekend ever....

She smiled for three days straight.

And she danced up a storm at the reception.

And Jenny gave her the best gifts for being the flower girl. Included in the gifts were butterfly wings and a mask. Little did Jenny know that Jillian was planning to be a butterfly for Halloween! Couldn't have been more perfect.

But this may be my favorite picture from the weekend. She was such a trooper and got lots of stares as she handled her own bags while at the airport. Have you ever seen a cuter traveler? All in pink, with her babydoll and her flower girl bouquet in her backpack.

Summer Recap

2010-09-11T07:59:00.011-05:00

Summer 2010 included a lot of swimming....

Dancing....

Learning to "drive"...

Telling secrets...

Eating popsicles...

Making new friends...

Running on the beach...

Catching fireflies...

Catching butterflies...

Hiking...

Going to Festivals...

Celebrating birthdays...

And spending time with family...

There were also lots of firsts......
Jillian's first sleep over at a friends house(Jenna's)...

And her first camping trip (also with Jenna and her family)...

which means we made smores...

and ate them heartily.

Now it's time to start her last year as a preschooler....bring it on!

2010-06-02T19:50:00.006-05:00

Some of our recent highlights.....

Jillian, earlier tonight, in her version of a superhero outfit.

Swimming with Daddy in the cold mountain water. Brrrrrr.

Greeting Daddy and Eric after their Memorial Day weekend backpacking trip on the Appalachian Trail.

Last day of school for the year. "We've got the whole world in our hands, we've got the whole world in our hands, we've got the whole world...." sing it with me now.

Our Garden is growing well......

Jillian likes taking care of Luray. Don't you love Luray's paw on Jillian's foot! Too Sweet.

Here she is at dress rehearsal for the ballet recital (far left). And yep, this is about how organized they looked during the actual performance! It was such a hoot. They had a wonderful time and that's all that counts.

We also went to see Dragonboat races earlier in the month.

And running through fields is always a great time.

But sharing a wagon ride with a friend is the best.

2010-05-21T13:34:00.005-05:00

The past few months have been busy and fun. We started off April with a trip to see family and friends in DC/VA/MD. While in DC Jillian saw her first dinosaurs and also expended a lot of energy running on The Mall. She had a ball visiting with a former colleague of mine from Nat'l Geographic and saw "Obama's house" as well.

And when we weren't in DC she was Easter egg hunting at cousin Dave's house. My cousin Julie went over and beyond by hiding eggs around her house and also giving Jillian an Easter basket. All in all she managed to get FIVE Easter baskets over the weekend from various friends and family. I wish I had remembered to take a picture of all of the baskets together. The girl had quite the haul. Such a great trip and what an awesome family we have. The following five photos are courtesy of cousins Julie and Loren. I think the one of her in the swing may be one of my favorites....ever!

This photo was taken a few Sundays back when Jillian first wore her new pretty summer dress with matching shoes. (Thanks Grandmommy!) And as you can see, we were starting to see the first green sprigs from our vegetable garden.

And this photo was taken on one of our many spring hiking trips.......the girl is just as comfortable on a footpath through the forest as she is in her Sunday best.

And she has just as much fun as a ballerina...

as she does on her new bike.

2010-04-01T18:10:00.002-05:00

Jillian's first bike!!!! Oh and her first helmet!!!! I have to add that since she was almost more excited about the helmet than the bike. And everything is either pink or purple......imagine that.

2010-03-03T15:03:00.002-05:00

Hard to believe another Chinese New Year has come and gone. Overall, February was a quiet month and we filled some of our time with activities that celebrated Jillian's heritage.

Sophie and Jillian showing off their new tattoos at our local Chinese NY celebration for adoptive families.

Watching the Dragon dance.

Painting Chinese symbols to put over a doorway.

Playing dressup with good friends.

And there was always swim practice.

2010-02-02T16:16:00.004-05:00

From her first sled ride in mid December to PRO sledder by Feb. 1st. The girl is a quick study. Fearless too. (and her parents have begun to relax while watching her zoom down the slopes as well).

She has started ballet class and loves it.

Very BIG moment.....Jillian's very 1st notebook. It's for her Chinese Language class. Sniff, sniff. They get so big, so fast.

Snow White was very sleepy.

Typical evening at home. One of us is usually trapped under Halle, but tonight she managed to get two of us.

Such a trendsetter!!!!!

2009-12-18T19:07:00.007-05:00

Snow, snow and more snow....

Jillian getting ready for her first sled ride EVER!! So neat to be a part of something like that.

Hereeee we goooo....

Jillian and Thompson zooming down the hill.

The dogs came out in droves and played as hard as the kids. Lots of dogs chasing sleds and each other. So fun.

This was during the second outing of the day. The snow was really starting to get deep. Aren't they so cute.

Herb, Jillian and Frank going for a ride (yes, they were going nice and slow).

This is the last picture of the day and it was still snowing like crazy.

Because I've been such a slacker with the blog as of late........Here are a few November pictures.

Here she is at Thanksgiving. Our friends Dan and Anne always put on the best feast. Jillian tasted her first ribs two years ago, at their place, during the annual Thanksgiving day celebration. This child can eat some ribs....and it makes her Grandmommy so proud.

AND NOW SHE'S FOUR!

Picking out her balloons at "the balloon store" before her party.

Halloween!!!

2009-10-31T14:28:00.004-05:00

Fear not......for SuperMAN is here to save "de wold." Ok, so that's actually save the world, but it's so much cuter when she says it her way.

SuperMAN gives a thumbs up after saving us all from scary monsters.

This is her serious Superman face. "I mean business, it's time to save the world."

Two of our four pumpkins.

Lots of pictures...

2009-10-01T14:39:00.011-05:00

Well September was just a whirlwind of events. We had such a great time and so I'll share some of the cutest photos of the month.

Jillian and Sophie with their (unplanned) matching shirts and boo-boos on their knees.

Jillian and Cecelia

Jillian and her mini me.

We joined three other families, for the second year in a row, for the Western NC State Fair.......(Kennedy, Jillian, Sophie and Libby)

Jillian is finally getting to wear the cheerleading outfit from her Aunt Barbara. She loves it!

Helping mom make chili before game.

On her way to see Uncle Gordon in Dallas...

The Dallas Zoo.

With Uncle Gordon

With Mom and Gordon at the Dallas Aquarium.

With Gordon and Chad

Jillian lounging with Sugar.

Lunch at Bolsa after the Zoo

The bartender made Jillian her very own fruity (virgin) drink.

She also got to meet one of Gordon and I's dearest friends. She adored Auntie Tonja and vice versa.

2009-09-01T08:55:00.002-05:00

This is one of the best reasons for living where we do.....beautiful creeks everywhere. Frank loves the rushing cold water and Jillian loves to follow his lead. But not me...too cold even in August. I'll get in, but only up to about my knees. Unfortunately, I couldn't even do that this time (stupid post foot surgery boot). Fortunately, I have finally learned how to use my camera on my phone. So while they're a bit fuzzy you can still see how nice it was.

Beach Trip Pics

2009-08-31T09:48:00.007-05:00

It's been a crazy month so I haven't had time to download photos until now. The beach trip was so fun and Jillian is still talking about it.

Jillian with her Aunt Barbara and Aunt Mern

Swimming in the estuary with cousin Nathan

It's fun to help snap beans for dinner

BUT, evidently they don't taste so good when you're 3 1/2 yrs old.

Jillian explaining a new game to cousin Lindsay....

"Lindsay's so fun mom" - We're pretty sure that Lindsay was Jillian's favorite person for the entire week.

Coloring with cousin Lucas......just wish I had a picture of them watching cartoons together.

2009-08-01T10:17:00.001-05:00

I'm ready for the beach!!!!

2009-07-30T09:21:00.001-05:00

Our First Garden - From this on June 2

To this in mid July

2009-07-07T08:28:00.002-05:00

Halle, Luray and Jillian on July 4th. Her shirt says "American Cutie."

Maybe you had to be there, but....

2009-06-21T15:21:00.004-05:00

Maybe you had to be there, but Jillian stole the show at church today. Although we've been going to our new church for seven months we just got around to finalizing our membership today. So, typically during the last 10 minutes of the service they introduce the new members,then we answer some questions the membership minister asks and then we all go back to our seats etc.... Well, little Miss Jillian was having none of that and decided that Reverend Dan had a better view and she headed right on up to the pulpit for the remainder of the service. Fortunately, Dan is a good sport and he's known Jillian pretty much from the start. If you were at our wedding then you might remember Dan, as he married us and you might remember that he is quite funny in his own right.

Soooo while I stood sweating (the nerves you get when you just hope and pray your child is being as cute as you know they can be) it out with no view of her for the most part, she and Dan carried on in the pulpit as if it wasn't the least bit out of the ordinary for her to be there.

She even stayed with Dan after we had gone back to our seats and were singing the final hymn. And then proceeded to wave at Frank and I until the service ended. So, no one will remember Frank and I but they will certainly remember Jillian. Lucky for us, one of the choir members had his camera and quickly snapped a few shots. Thanks Paul!

2009-06-10T17:39:00.002-05:00

Jillian's first Masterpiece. Definitly worth framing and showing off for years to come. ; )

One of Jillian's spontaneous dance moments. No music needed.

2009-05-23T15:45:00.002-05:00

Jillian with her friend and classmate Jenna, at a Teddy Bear Tea party. We got this shot on the first frame.

After the tea party the girls went down to the barn, fed the donkeys, ran around on some of the trails through the property and then giggled their way through a picnic lunch. Great day all around.

2009-05-14T09:06:00.004-05:00

Cecelia and Jillian at a local festival. Nothing better than eating ice cream with a friend on a hot day......

Jillian's first sleeping bag.

Look mommy "I'm a penguin."

Easter

2009-04-12T13:19:00.003-05:00

Jillian made sure to show everyone at church that her coat matched her dress. She was so proud and said her dress and coat were "the coolest ever mom."

Obligatory family photo....

Daddy's little helper...

Just minutes ago..........Jillian tucking Frank in for a nap after working in the yard. Notice the stuffed rabbit under his feet with Grover and Baby beside him. She also gave up her blanket so he could be warm. So cute and sweet. The dogs got in on the action too. Halle is wedged into her spot on Frank's lap and Luray is safely part of the action, but still able to catch a few Zzzzzz.

Palm Sunday

2009-04-06T18:31:00.004-05:00

This is why having a girl is such fun. I (and Jillian) love this dress. Rediculously cute. Unfortunately, it was too chilly for the little pink sweater that came with it, so we had to improvise a little. Not bad....I think she pulled it off quite well. ; )

Easter Egg Hunt

2009-04-06T18:10:00.005-05:00

We had a great weekend. It was beautiful and sunny and full of fun. Saturday was kicked off with a neighborhood Easter Egg hunt for the kids. There were 600 eggs hidden and I'm telling you that wasn't enough. It was amazing to see the kids go for it. I'm thinking there were probably 100 people there and probably half were children. There were also games and I caught some cute shots of Jillian and Daddy in the sack race.

And now it's Spring?

2009-03-09T12:54:00.002-05:00

From freezing cold snow to a heat wave.....well, not exactly a heat wave, but when it's been crazy cold and then you have almost 80 degree heat it feels like you're melting. Looks like two more days of warm weather and then back to 30's and 40's. Bummer.

These pictures are from the Purim Festival at the local JCC. We joined Susan and Sophie and Christy and Rosie this past Sunday. It was a terrific festival for kids and Jillian had a ball. Susan, Christy and I didn't get to visit too much as we were constantly in motion following the girls from one booth to another.

One of Jillian's new spring dresses. She is almost refusing to wear anything but skirts and dresses and so I've been stocking up on cute cheap dresses that can handle the rough and tumble parts of her personality.

Jillian's first face painting.

And also her first snowcone. Despite the look on her face she liked both.

And she's such a little conniver. This poor fella, Elliot, had to slide down with her about three times because she kept saying she couldn't go by herself. He would help her up the middle and then have to slide down with her because she wouldn't let go of his hand. Little did he know that she totally loves these inflatable slides and can go down with no help at all. Eventually she did go down by herself, but not before saying "I like him mommy." I could have sworn she was getting ready to ask if we could take him home.

Here she is learning how to milk a cow. I'm pretty sure she now thinks that when you milk a cow you get a tootsie roll. She kept going back over and over and over....and got a tootsie roll everytime.

Sophie and Jillian taking a lollipop break.

2009-03-09T12:46:00.002-05:00

A few pics from the day after our one big snow..... thanks for the pics Deanna.

Jillian and Ansley. (And no, the sunglasses were not my idea. Jillian is starting to show signs of being a fashionista. And yes, this scares me a little bit)

Our only REAL snowfall this winter.....

2009-03-03T13:53:00.004-05:00

Jillian: Mommy, I want to go play in the snow.

Me: I know J, but it's really cold and windy right now and it's also getting dark so maybe we should wait until tomorrow when it's thick and fluffy.

Jillian: But, but, but, I want to go now.

Me: Ok, but we'll need to put your snow boots on and ....wait honey, the phone is ringing, I'll be right back.

Jillian: Look mom!! I'm ready to go. I put my boots on all by myself.

Me: Um well, actually you'll need a few more items.

Much better........

Daddy, oh dear sweet Pittsburgh born, cold weather loving daddy - will you brave the cold and take your daughter out to play??

And off they go.

Six to seven minutes later....
Jillian: Mommy, it's too cold out there. Daddy brought me home. I'm freezing.

2009-03-03T13:45:00.003-05:00

Well, the crib has been sent to a new home. Heavy sigh.....my little girl is growing up.

She was a good sport about it and I'll confess I sweetened the deal by saying that if her crib could go to a new home she could pick out her own rug and also get a bean bag for that corner. Eventually, we'll add some shelves and some pictures but clearly she is happy with just the two new items...

2009-02-26T12:15:00.003-05:00

Some pictures from February.......

Jillian has started swim class again and she is loving it. We're signed up again for March so I might get lucky and get some additional fun shots of her in class.

I love this shot because she is imitating one of the stretches I have to do for my foot. Frank and I are constantly stretching a leg or a hip or our backs and we are hoping she is learning a little something from it. Something other than "old people need to stretch, right mommy" which is what she announced two nights ago. Heavy sigh......(but aren't the butterfly tights cute!)

At play with Nella, Sophie and Rosie.

Probably the last time she'll get to wear this dress. One of my all time favorites. But she's getting a little too tall to keep pulling it off.

Happy Chinese New Year!

2009-01-31T18:04:00.004-05:00

Cecelia and Jillian at play...

Jillian wore this outfit to the Chinese NY celebration. I bought this in China and hoped she would fit in it at the right time. Needless to say I was thrilled that it fit perfectly.

The girls all received a ribbon to practice ribbon dances. There were at least 20 girls whipping these sticks around, and lots of parents holding their breaths that no one got poked too hard.

And do we have a budding pianist perhaps????.... ; )

um.....probably not.

2009-01-10T14:09:00.005-05:00

January is starting off with a bang. I already have over 50 pictures saved for the month.

Happy New Year! Here are Jillian and Cecelia practicing for the Jan. 1 NOON coutdown. Gotta give C's mom, Barbara, credit for that idea. The girls didn't know what the big deal was, but give'm hats, horns and a reason to jump and scream and all is well in the world.

Playing dressup with Sophie.

December Photos

2008-12-31T08:57:00.008-05:00

Christmas has come and gone and while the family is exhausted from travel and recovering from various viruses we are all happy and ready for 2009. Jillian really had a great time this season as she's starting to understand a little more about Christmas and the anticipation leading up to it. Santa brought her new books and a choo choo train, while the rest of the family threw in new clothes, a backpack, stuffed animals, DVDS, games, a cinderella dress up set and yet still more new books into the pile of wonderful gifts. And Luray and Halle gave her a new lunchbox which is only fitting as they are all about food.

Enjoy the pics from December.....I may not get them all posted today as little one is looking for some attention.

Time to tackle Uncle Tom!

Morning stretches with daddy in the hotel room.

The family tradition is to go bowling when everyone finally arrives. Jillian had a ball and almost beat several others.

She loves her new stuffed dog from Mike and Jenny.

Luray opens her own gifts and this year she got a Snoopy dog.

Santa brought J her own choo choo train and some books too!

Baking cookies with Grandma ma.

These photos are from Cecelias birthday party a few weeks back. They were taken at an area kids museum. The last one of Jillian and Lucy running in circles is my favorite. If you click on it you can see it up close and their joy is just palpable.

The Birthday Girl

2008-11-17T20:57:00.004-05:00

Well, Frank and I made it through our first birthday party for Jillian. Eight little ones running around is quite busy. I have a new appreciation for teachers of young children. Despite the sheer exhaustion of putting it together and then putting it on, I'm very glad we did it. It was definitely fun, if not also sensory overload for all involved, not just the wee ones. The important thing is that Jillian had a blast and it was great to see her with her "buddies and best friends." Of course, she also calls her blanket her best friend and Halle and Luray her best friends and the lady bug on the window her best friend etc.. She's all about being 3, completely full of herself and a total hoot!

(notice the fork AND spoon)

Sophie and Jillian in their matching coats.

A lot of Jillian's pics as of late have been ones of her in skirts and dresses looking really neat and cute. But, it should be noted that the girl is also rough and tumble and quite the comedienne, as seen in the picture below.

2008-11-08T08:06:00.001-05:00

Jillian, Sophie and lots of leaves. Thanks for the pics Susan........

2008-11-02T09:08:00.010-05:00

WOW! September and October were fun fun months. Loads of festivals, parties, fairs and general all day outings etc.. I'm still receiving pictures here and there from other parents so I'll probably post a few more in the coming weeks. A huge thanks to all the parents sending pictures.

Jillian and Grandmama

Jillian and Cecelia went trick or treating together for the first time. it was so fun and and quite hysterical at times. Some of the best quotes of the night, from both of them....Seriously mom, I'm a mouse - ok.......I'm not scared since I have on a scarey costume.......Seeeee, I'm a mouse and I have a tail (said as if the other person was an idiot) - ok..........We've waited a long time for this haven't we mom........I have to cover my shoes so no one will know there is a person inside here.......I go trick or treating tonight and Grandmama goes trick or treating next week.

Jillian loves her new pink skirt. Thanks Grandmama. Another winner.

I took these before she headed to school for picture day.

Thanks for the picture Beth. Who knew playing in a corn box was so exhausting.

2008-10-22T14:31:00.005-05:00

Here are last weekends pictures at the apple orchard nearby. We had a group of 4 little ones and it was such a blast to see them all running around and playing on tractors, pumpkins, picking apples and also playing in the various kid friendly "houses" on the property (giant pumpkin, giant apple etc). After 2 hours we were all pooped and everyone headed home for naps.

2008-09-21T07:47:00.006-05:00

Well, September has just been a wonderful month. Jillian has settled into her new school and she's made loads of new friends. As a family we've met and become pals with several families in the area and also had a reunion of sorts with friends from out of town, all of whom have daughters from China. Last weekend we celebrated the Chinese Autumn Moon Festival, with four other familes, at our house. It was great fun and quite the experience with five little girls all within about 11 months of each other. And this weekend I captured a few more pictures of Jillian and Cecelia on an outing yesterday. Since Sophie and Cecelia live close to us I imagine there will be many more pictures posted with these two gals.

Left to right...Cecelia, Jillian, Kennedy, Sophie and Libby

Jillian and Cecelia....

2008-09-02T08:44:00.002-05:00

Pictures from Labor Day weekend. The first one is my favorite, but I'm thrilled to have gotten the last two, because she has decided that making funny faces is more fun than smiling. And her "picture smile" is usually terrible and looks more like she is in some kind of pain. I'm sure I shot about 50 pictures in order to get these good ones.

2008-08-14T18:34:00.004-05:00

I'm loving Jillian's new haircut.....crazy cute.

helping mom pluck the deadheads off the petunias...

and enjoying her new swingset/slide/rockwall...

2008-07-04T06:59:00.003-05:00

Here are some additional cute photos from the past month...

Grandmama bought this dress and she wore it for our rehearsal dinner party. And this also gives you a little shot of her bedroom in our new house. She has a big girl bed in the room also, but hasn't decided to sleep in it just yet. And I'm not pushing it.

Again, the barrettes are a gift from Grandmama.

She is wearing her favorite necklace in this photo. Thanks Wayne and Linda. And yes this is a recent photo. That's the Steelers Superbowl win DVD playing in the background. Her daddy has to relive the moment every month or so. Heavy sigh.

Watching TV while wearing her sunglasses (this was from the beachtrip)

My neat and organized child decided that the lambs needed to go back in their stall. She "helped" point them in the right direction.

J came home early from school one day when she wasn't feeling well. I decided it would be a good time to introduce her to a manicure/pedicure. Normally I shy away from things that are too grown up, but she loves watching me do my nails and so this was such a treat for her. Needless to say, she wanted to show the other kids in school so she made sure to feel better the next day, so she could go. Gotta love this gal.

Wedding Pics

2008-06-13T18:16:00.008-05:00

Here are the promised pictures of the wedding. What a terrific day it was. So much laughter and so much love all around. Frank and I couldn't be more fortunate. Folks came from all over, 13 states to be exact. AND fifteen of my college girlfriends came, which was the first time this many of us had been together in about nine years. We seem to grow closer every year. And I must add that the KD's held/kept up nicely with all the 20 somethings that were there, of which there were many as Frank's family travels in a pack, and all his (now they're mine too!) nieces and nephews came. I must say that's amazing to me, because when I was in my twenties I found it very difficult to make weddings that weren't close by due to graduations, travel, lack of time off, limited funds etc. Their efforts were greatly appreciated. OK, I'm rambling, but it really was THAT much fun and I could go on and on, but of course you just really want to see the pictures.

I'd love to post pictures of friends and additional family, but as this blog is not restricted I felt it best to limit it to just those that have been posted before.

Peek-a-boo

My brother walked me down the aisle, but I'm sure my dad was there in spirit.

The bracelets were a gift from my brother in law Joel. They kept Little Miss J busy during the ceremony. Brilliant!

I love this photo of Dawn, Cynthia and Leslie. And yes, they really are this gorgeous...everyday.

Filling up on wedding cake...sugar high just minutes away!

Uncles Joel and Gordon, who were invaluable in taking care of Jillian.

My sweet girl.

2008-06-08T19:38:00.006-05:00

Just returned from the beach and thought I'd share these fun pictures. Jillian had a ball and after the second day she didn't want to get out of the water. Be sure to click on the picture of Frank holding Jillian up. When you see her face on a larger scale you can almost hear her screams and laughter. Oh and for those that have inquired, I'm still wading through the wedding pics, and will decide on which to post sometime this week.

2008-05-19T11:59:00.003-05:00

Taking a line from my favorite 2 1/2 year old....."I did it" is now "WE did it!" What a great weekend we had. Fun, fun, fun. I don't even know where to begin. We are still receiving loads of emails with photos attached so I won't try to post too many at this time. But, here is one of my favorites. Thank you to all those that have sent and are still sending photos.

First Beach Trip!

2008-04-09T19:43:00.004-05:00

Last weekend was a momentous weekend. Jillian walked on a beach and experienced the sensation of sand in her shoes, for the first time. While the weather was warmish, it was just too windy to get in the water. But she had a great time running on the beach, playing in the sand, then stepping on and collecting seashells. Thank you again to Troy and Tracey for inviting us down for a fun gathering.

The year in review

2008-03-25T14:05:00.009-05:00

Hard to believe that it's already been 1 year since Jillian and I were brought together (March 27th to be exact). What an AMAZING year. So many changes for both of us. Wouldn't change a thing. She's so happy, so healthy, so well adjusted, so much good all brought together in one child. Some days I am thoroughly convinced that I am going to hug her to death.

April 6 is our next big date as that was the date we arrived stateside and she met her new Daddy and her new Grandmama. Oh and let's not forget her best friends during mealtimes, Luray and Halle.

I've posted some pictures that I think capture the dramatic changes over the past year.

The first time I saw her - March 27, 2007
April '07
May '07
July '07
September '07
October '07
November '07
December '07
January '08
February '08
March '08

Recent favorites

2008-03-15T14:06:00.006-05:00

The best way to watch cartoons...

Jillian, what did you put in your pocket? Mommy I putted kit tee and duhk in dat potket.

and Jillian just had her second haircut. No more borderline mullet, no more moptop, just a cute bob. She was so great (thank you Keebler) and had quite the audience in the salon.

Happy Chinese New Year

2008-02-10T20:22:00.001-05:00

We attended our first FCC (Families w/Children from China) event here Saturday afternoon, and had a great time celebrating the Chinese New Year. There were probably 150 people there and seeing so many girls (and a few boys too) running around was really great. There were only one or two other girls younger than Jillian and so when the various performances were going on she had little competition for cutest noise from the audience. Example: Music skips and from out of the blue you hear a loud and clear "Uh-Oh!" Yep, that would be Jillian. Another example: Nice Chinese lady demonstrating a very slow traditional Chinese dance and there's Jillian dancing on the sidelines as though it's Boogie Nights. I counted at least ten camcorders filming the performances. Something tells me Jillian will be stealing the scene on that dance.

Enjoy the pictures and yes, for those that recognize the dress, it's the same one she wore back in April, on one of our last group activities in China. It still fit! I was so thrilled to see her in it one more time.

Oh and lots of new words and phrases this week. "I did that" is popular for just about anything she does no matter how big or small and my favorite....drumroll please..."Mommie, I toot." Yes, thank you. My daughter tells you when she passes gas just in case you didn't quite hear it reverberate off her diaper. Heavy sigh.

2008-01-29T08:11:00.000-05:00

Hard to believe it's been a month since Christmas and 6 weeks since the move. Jillian and I are doing great. She is really enjoying her new daycare and I'm proud as punch to report that the most recent speech therapy evaluation showed that she has almost caught up with her peer group. They did not feel she would need any therapy sessions. Wow. Based on where she was in Oct and where she is now they think she will be up to par in a month or so. AND I'm inclined to believe them. She adds new words everyday and just last night said "daddy funny." Which he is. She had never said that before. And although she has been saying "thank you" for quite a while, she is now also saying "welcome" and is probably about 80% accurate as to when to use them properly. And that's just the tip of the iceburg. She also started using the potty last monday. Just out of the blue. Said potty and off she went to go find the potty seat. Up to that moment she refused to even try using the potty at home. I thought it was going to be months. But 0 to 60. That's our girl.

Here are some pictures from January. I didn't realize until I looked through them all at once that she is generally in pink or lavender. Just a coincidence. She does have other colors in her wardrobe. ; )

I'm particularly proud of the puzzle picture as we had dumped all the pieces in a pile and then she put them together all by herself. 7 puzzles! She even knew where to put the pieces that had been lovingly chewed on by Halle. Horse with no head, turtle with no shell etc... Although we never found the chicken. To which Jillian proclaimed, HAyee! (HALLE)! Smart girl.

Christmas Pictures

2007-12-25T20:34:00.000-05:00

Just before the Christmas Eve church service.

Christmas Day!

General mood of the day.

Halle and Jillian sharing time with DaDa.

The usual lovefest with Grandmama.

Rosebud

2007-12-09T13:21:00.000-05:00

Well, I've just done one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, but it was worth it in the end. As some of you know, Rosebud has not been a very happy camper since Jillian arrived. She has been sullen, her tail has been at half mast and she has spent a lot of time under the bed. After months of agonizing over what to do I finally came to terms with the fact that she was not going to come out of her slump as long as Jillian was here.

So, I took her, on Dec. 1, to an adoption day near the new house, sponsored by the Animal Compassion Network. I cannot tell you how great this organization is. They go above and beyond and the whole process was very professional.

Anyway, it was a beautiful and sunny day and Rosebud picked out the best couple to adopt as her new owners. She made it very obvious that she wanted M & K to become her new family and was very relaxed and at ease with them, through the whole paperwork and interview process. After they passed the home visit inspection last Monday we knew it was a done deal. I took her to her new home this past Thursday and rather than cry the whole time I found myself laughing and cheering her on as she ran (and ran and ran) around her new yard. She inspected every inch and managed to conjure up the puppy crazies a few times. She was grinning ear to ear and I knew it was the right decision and a great fit.

M & K, thank you a thousand times over for opening your hearts and home to a new cuddly creature. Your updates on her progress have just been wonderful. I look forward to seeing you sometime in the next few months. I promise not to tell Luray and Halle that Rose has FOUR dog beds, with one being right near the fireplace and about 6 inches thick. They might want to adopt you too.

Rose and I with her new family.

Sacked out after a long day of walks, romps in the backyard and playing with Bobo, her new next door neighbor.

Thanksgiving Holidays

2007-11-26T17:15:00.000-05:00

We had a great holiday weekend. Jillian's room at the new house is almost complete and she slept in it all four nights with virtually no problem. We have three more weeks here and then we finish the transition to Frank's place. It's been hectic to say the least. BUT, it wasn't all work and no play.

Grandmama introduced Jillian to ribs a month or so back and it paid off. She wasn't big on the turkey, but she loved the ribs, so we had something to fall back on Thursday. And Frank and I are thinking we're doing pretty well as parents so far. I mean, ribs and the Steelers. This gal has her priorities straight.

And when it's Fall, leaf play is a must.

Plus an afternoon showing off squeaky shoes is fun too.

Birthday wknd

2007-11-18T13:30:00.001-05:00

Jillian had a great time celebrating her 2nd birthday this weekend. We kept it pretty simple, but made sure to keep it fun and with lots of focus on the wee one. She received many gifts from friends and family that live out of town and I can't thank them enough for the wonderful surprises. I've highlighted some moments from the weekend below.

Yum, cupcakes!

Having a blast at Monkey Joe's...........

Sporting her new jacket and pushing her new baby stroller.....

Wrapped up in her new HANDMADE blanket from my cousin Rina.....(Rina it's just beautiful)

And from Frank's clan.....their Steelers pride showed brightly.

(Pssst...to my clan, I'll be needing some Redskin clothing pronto or else we may lose her)

Some additional October 2007 pics....

2007-11-01T08:18:00.000-05:00

J went as Minnie Mouse to a Halloween party last Saturday...she wouldn't keep the mouse ears on for anything.

She then went as a Lady Bug on Wednesday for all the days festivities. She had a great time at daycare as the kids went Trick or Treating to various trunks of parents cars. They also had a costume parade. My camera acted up so I was only able to snap a few pics. But the kids were adorable! Unfortunately, I've been sick ALL week and was still in terrible shape last night. I wasn't able to do much house hopping, but all in all I think she had a good first Halloween.....despite the fact she wasn't TOO wild about giving candy out at the house. That did cause quite a few tears.

These pics are from last Sunday....

Grandmama and Frank walking with Jillian. Too sweet.

These pictures remind me of just how tiny and cute she still is. I especially love the last one. Something about it just captures me.

Pumpkins!!!

2007-10-08T16:18:00.001-05:00

Jillian took her first trip to the pumpkin patch this weekend. It didn't last long as it was very hot, despite the calendar saying OCTOBER. And the poor pumpkins didn't look so good due to the drought conditions here, but we still had fun.

Cissie, Diane & Denise

2007-10-05T08:07:00.000-05:00

Many thanks to the Troutman crew. Jillian and I loved spending part of Wednesday with you. And I must have still been savoring the yummy meatloaf because I completely forgot to get a picture of all of us together! Guess that means we will just have to come back to see you.

It's all about sticks...

2007-10-04T09:29:00.000-05:00

With Luray's ever loyal companion, Jillian, right by her side (and yes I meant to say it in that order), they manage to keep the backyard stick free. Luray is generally very very gentle when prying twigs from Jillian's hands, should she be reluctant to hand them over, but needless to say I watch them like a hawk. I actually worry a little more about Jillian bopping Luray on the head too hard. This interaction the other day was priceless. I imagine Luray thinking.......

If I just lay here quietly she's bound to give me a stick.

Maybe THAT one. Righhhht now.....

Nope, maybe now....doh! On the ground Jillian, on the ground.

Just put it down nice and easy right between my paws....

Good girl Jillian. WE make a great team. Chomp, chomp, crunch, crunch....

2007-09-12T09:24:00.000-05:00

Jillian's baptism was this past Sunday. And since her Uncles Gordon and Joel were in town, we had a great family weekend with loads of cute photos.

She loved twirling in her dress.

After the baptism she pulled some flowers from a bush nearby and put one behind her ear, just like I had done for her a few days before.

I love this photo of Jillian and Frank.

Uncle Gordon is soooo much fun! And I love my first bracelet from Grandmama.

And it's so much fun to grab mommy's flipflop off her foot when she is trying to get me to stand still so she can take a picture of me with flowers behind my ears!

2007-09-07T08:26:00.000-05:00

Finally....

2007-09-02T12:21:00.000-05:00

Jillian has finally decided that it is OK to have hair ties in her hair. She even allowed me to put her in pig tails. They looked hysterical the first day as they were sticking up really high and looked like antennas. I need some practice with this hair tie business myself. The next day looked better.

other items....

This was my favorite purchase while in China. I just love her in this dress. AND she just loves her white patent leather shoes. Too bad today will probably the last wear for both. She's busting out of the shoes and the dress is very light and more for summer. Oh, and she had her hair tied back here too,that's not a bald spot. ; )

2007-08-16T16:28:00.000-05:00

Here are some new pics......

Too sweet....

Here have a toy....

Looks like this single gal is gettin hitched

2007-07-31T20:10:00.000-05:00

(picture taken Nov. 2006)

Well, it's official. Frank and I are engaged! I'm still in a pleasant bit of shock that my life has changed so much in the last 12 months. And there are more changes still to come as I'll be moving to Asheville in December or January. No wedding date has been set yet, but I suspect we'll wait until next spring. So much to do with the move etc... But, it will probably be small(ish), short and sweet.

I feel very fortunate to have found such an amazing partner. We make such a great team and knowing that he dove in head first when I brought Jillian home, while knowing there was a huge emotional risk, just made me love him even more. And I'm just crazy happy that she's going to have a dad.

And to top off the engagement, as if that wasn't enough, Jillian met her soon to be cousins, aunts and uncles from Frank's side. We attended his niece's wedding and Jillian and I met the whole clan last weekend, for the first time. It was such a great weekend and I still get a little choked up thinking about how welcoming they all were. They treated us as if we were already family. So now Jillian has met Frank's family, and a few cousins and an uncle from my side. We're hoping to get up to MD in September and introduce her to the rest of my crew. Poor girl will never get everyone straight. ; )

Anyway, here are some fun pictures from the weekend.

With cousin Mike

With Uncle Barry

Back to the dance floor

Time for a cookout...

Who knew a bucket and a pink and green ball could be so much fun???

With Aunt Barbara at the end of a long hard day of play...

Thank you to ALL of Frank's family for a wonderful weekend.

2007-07-10T08:20:00.001-05:00

Here are some cute pictures of Jillian taken this morning. She's thriving in daycare and I'm repeatedly reminded that I need to buy a nursery rhyme CD as I can't remember a whole nursery rhyme to save my life. Everytime I visit her class I find myself going "Oh yea, I remember that one."

But at least I know, if you're happy and you know it clap your hands/stomp your feet! And that's what we were playing this morning when I snapped a cute shot of her stomping her foot. Although, she kind of looks like she is hula dancing.

Girls Weekend

2007-06-24T19:43:00.000-05:00

Well, Jillian and I had an all girls weekend together. It was fun and ended on a high note as Mom popped by for a bit. After dinner, we played with Jillian in the playroom for awhile. Then we gave her a bath and got her ready for bed. My favorite moments were when Jillian, fresh from being toweled off and with her Buddha belly sticking out and that cute little tush exposed, ran straight to Grandmama and held her arms up for a lift. Mom obliged of course. So cute.

And then Jillian ditched me for mom and had her "read" her a bedtime story. But Jillian doesn't actually let you read to her. It's more like letting her flip through the pages and then she gets on and off your lap so that she can switch out the books, until she's managed to flip through five or six. Up, down, up, down. It can be quite exhausting as mom found out.

Jillian and I managed to make it to church for the first time this morning. We didn't attend the service, but I met up with mom and we introduced her to a lot of folks. I also showed her the nursery as well as the empty sanctuary, before the 11am service. Jillian took to the nursery like it was no big deal and so we stayed for about 15 minutes. She then ran straight to the organist once in the sanctuary. She giggled as he moved his hands over the keys and looked up as the organ sounded. And of course, she also climbed right on up into Ken's pulpit. I tell ya, she just makes herself at home no matter where she is. Gotta love her for it too.

This is a picture from this morning before heading to church. Don't you just love the tan lines from her sandals.

2007-05-30T15:51:00.000-05:00

Cousin Julie, you're the best. Thank you so much for the great shots of my girlie girl. And I am now officially in the obnoxious Mommy club because I'm pretty sure I would be sending these pics to everyone by email if it weren't for the blog. Plus, I think I mumbled something like "I really do have the cutest child ever," when I saw these photos.

Jillian and I with Grandma ma

2007-05-29T11:15:00.000-05:00

How do you like the new photo on the sidebar? I love it. It's from June 20, 2006. Jillian was only 7 months old. I came across quite a few shots of her on the Dianjiang orphanage website. I had missed them months ago and am thrilled that a fellow DJ parent, pointed them out. Credit for the photo goes to Moya. Her visits (and the others that also regularly visit DJ) have helped so many new parents put together pieces of their child's history. Jillian and I are so fortunate to have photos from that far back. Fabulous!

Happy two months.......

2007-05-27T20:23:00.000-05:00

Well, we have officially been together for two months now. It's mind boggling to think of all Jillian has gone through. She is an amazing child and I couldn't be happier.

She took her first dip in a pool today and she had a blast.

She giggled, cackled and splashed for over an hour while Grandmama watched from her balcony. And as our family is a family of swimmers I think it's wonderful to know we have another one in the bunch. Now the goal is to get Grandmama well and let her take Jillian for a dip with her swim friends at the JCC. In the meantime, I'll just keep taking her to the pool whenever I get the chance.

Other news - Jillian is now regularly sleeping through the night. She'll generally go to bed between 7pm-8pm and might wake between 2am-4am for about 30 minutes, but then goes back down until about 6am. It's been so great to get long stretches of sleep and also not be so worried about her night terrors. She still has them, but not nearly as bad and although I might hear her tossing at times, she can get herself back to sleep pretty well.

Little Miss J

2007-05-19T20:48:00.000-05:00

Thanks for the photo May. Jillian loved playing with you and Shannon. Can't wait until your baby girls make it home too.

My Sherpa

2007-05-11T08:06:00.000-05:00

Jillian loves to drag my laptop bag to the door in the mornings. (laptop not yet included) And while the morning routine is starting to click with her, she's still a bit off on timing. This morning I had to explain that she could not go to daycare in her jammies and that we leave after she changes clothes.

Another tidbit is that she almost launched off of me this morning into Joanne's arms at daycare. I almost got away without her crying, but when I stayed a few extra seconds to open my first mother's day gift (her cute little hand prints) it dawned on her that I was leaving and that she should probably be crying.
Anne

So much for that....

2007-05-08T14:23:00.000-05:00

Well, Jillian's three night stretch of sleeping straight through the night is long over. I had so hoped I could brag that the night terrors had ended, but alas they are still rearing their ugly heads. She had a pretty rough night, night before last. I think I got about 3-4 hrs tops. She woke crying, hollering and thrashing at least 6-7 times before 1am. After that she was mostly up and fighting the urge to sleep. I can't blame her. If I had night terrors I wouldn't want to sleep either. But while it was a long night for me, my heart just went out to her. I can't begin to tell you why it was a worse night than others. Fortunately, she still managed to have a great day at daycare yesterday. The reports are positive and she has started playing with some of the other kids on a more regular basis. Crying was at a minimum. She slept better last night so I'm hoping today was also a good day. Better means I only had to get up 3-4 times. Sigh.

All in all, I can't really complain. Other than sleep problems she's a real trooper. Just this morning I found several splinters from the deck, in the palm of her hand. Two were pretty swollen and when I washed her hand the splinters had pretty much surfaced. They were easy to get out and she was really cooperative. I just couldn't believe she hadn't complained or shown me her sore hand. Heck, she shows me her hand when nothing is wrong so certainly I would've thought she would have shown me her splinters. Lord knows I can't stop messing with a splinter when I have one, but she just didn't seem affected at all.

This picture was taken last week. Isn't that the sweetest face! Notice that's a statement, not a question. ; )

And the big gift was a wagon from The Stodolski's. Jillian had just managed to get the bow off when Luray came barreling in to "help" unwrap the present. Let me repeat an earlier post...never teach a big, huge dog to unwrap presents. It's cute until you have kids and they can't unwrap their own gifts. The saving grace is that once the paper is off, Luray lumbers off to rest from all the excitement. It's hard being 10 1/2 and now the guardian of a 17 month old. Poor old girl.

And forgive me for not mentioning Rosebud more often. She has definitely warmed up to Jillian and has actually let her pet her several times. But, she usually stays at a distance of about three feet. This completely sends Jillian into fits at times, but she's so young she gets bored and stops to investigate some tiny speck on the floor and this allows Rose to scamper off to safety.

Anne

She loved it!

2007-05-02T06:28:00.000-05:00

Jillian took a break from the hot weather last night and loved it. Notice the ever present Luray in the background. Originally thought she was there as the ever loyal companion but she was actually waiting to pounce on the blow up toys that come with the little pool. I had to watch 2 kids! But mom, Jillian and I had a good laugh and a lot of fun.

AND Jillian slept through the night again. Love it.

Hallelujah!

2007-05-01T12:53:00.000-05:00

Jillian slept through the night last night and that is definitly blogworthy. And I mean slept through. Not one peep, not one cry out in the middle of the night. But of course I woke up around 1:00am, wondering why she hadn't yet woken, and crept to the nursery to make sure she was still breathing. And while that may sound dramatic this child hasn't come close to sleeping through the night while with me. I'm having a hard time not getting my hopes up that it will continue.

One possible factor was that her first full day of daycare was yesterday. She was there for almost 7 hours. Even though she happened to be crying when I arrived the daycare teachers assured me that she did really well. She was waving bye and blowing kisses by the time we walked to the car so I think she survived her first day just fine.

And well, a few folks have said I am just not posting enough pictures. I can handle that request, so here are a few more.

This one of her running through the yard is probably one of my favorites. It has really grown on me. I can't believe I almost deleted it because it was off center.

She ran around this chair for probably 5 minutes, giggling and waving her hands around the whole time. Who needs toys when you have a chair available!

And as I've previously mentioned she loves to sit on anything and everything. She's realized the dogs won't stay put, but that ledge on the gate sure held up.

Did I just hear someone say cutiepatootie?

From this on March 27th.....

2007-04-28T12:04:00.000-05:00

To THIS....in only a month.

It's hard to believe I've been a mom for a month. When I think back to what Jillian and I have both been through over the last 32 days it just amazes me. We've both come so far. She's not only traveled distance, she's learned(ing) to trust and find comfort in a new home with a new family. I on the other hand, have found patience I didn't know I would ever need and also reached emotional levels I couldn't comprehend only 33 days ago. I just love this kiddo to death and can't kiss and hug on her enough....for me. I think she feels it's enough, but I just keep on grabbing her up and crushing her in hugs and smothering her in kisses.

Now that the grass is growing, leaves are shading the yard, birds are singing and the weather is warm she spends loads of time in the backyard. She loves to climb the slope and attempt to run back down, usually ending up in a heap about midway, but she gets right back up and keeps on going for it. She has also learned that Luray, our Golden, loves sticks and after windy weather Jillian helps me clear the back yard. We then take the sticks to the woodchipper, which would be Luray. Luray takes the sticks out of her hand very gently and then munches them into twigs. Jillian just keeps giggling and tossing twigs at her until they are all in shreds. And don't worry I stand there the whole time, although not from concern, more because it's just so dang funny.

I start work on a broader scale this week so posting will continue to be intermittent. But I love that so many folks continue to check back with us. The support from family and friends has been beyond anything I could've hoped for. I've kept every card and note and a running log of gifts from everyone. There are many many Thank You notes still to be written. I just can't keep up. And that's a great problem to have. I want Jillian to see all of this one day and know how absolutely loved she is. This whole experience continues to be amazing.

Love to all, Anne
P.S. And a huge shout out to my wonderful fella, Frank. I couldn't have asked for a better partner and having you share this has been a blast.

Update

2007-04-24T12:16:00.000-05:00

Thought I'd grab what time I can to post a quick update. Jillian is doing really well! She's so much fun and just so happy all the time. Her giggle is infectious and whoever says a toddler doesn't get sarcasm is seriously wrong. She generally only says Mama when she's hungry, mad or being dramatic. It kind of comes out like "MaaaaMaaaaa!" The other day I decided to say "Jilliaaaaannnn!" She said MaaaMaaa again and then I repeated "Jilliaaaannn." You get where I'm going. She loved it and now she says "MaaaaMaaaa" with a huge smile on her face or pursed lips and a twinkle in her eye. Cracks me up everytime.

She has also learned how to kiss when asked for one and knows how to blow kisses as well. She hasn't learned hello but definitly knows how to wave goodbye. She is obsessed with sitting on things. Whether chairs, shoes, toys etc.. she tries to sit on it. And she will actually come grab your hand and bring you over to sit down with her. Once you are sitting she belts out this huge laugh and then gets up to go do something else, leaving you there.

Sleeping has been a challenge but it's getting better. She is generally waking 3 times a night, which is much easier than the previous 6-7. I think I'm averaging about 5-6 hours although not consecutive. Kind of piecemealing it together. She decided last week that she liked her crib and that made a huge difference I'm sure.

I started her at daycare yesterday. We went for 2 hours both yesterday and today. She seems to be enjoying it although she is definitly jealous if other kids come up to me. Seems she wants me all to herself. (I secretly love it too) I'm thinking I should be able to get back into the office fulltime next week. Her daycare is only 1.5 miles and a straight shot from my office so I'll be able to visit or join her for lunch quite easily. And although I didn't think I'd want to get back into the office just yet, I do. I miss it a lot, and while I've enjoyed being with her fulltime I think she will learn more and get more stimulus at daycare. Keeping a toddler occupied is a real challenge.

And thanks Nicole for these pictures.

Anne

Pictures

2007-04-09T18:59:00.000-05:00

This is a picture from the first moment I saw Jillian. All the girls were in this open room playing and we all just walked in completely unprepared. It wasn't the usual transfer between parents and children. We were all a bit paralyzed. Our whole group took a few seconds to digest this scene and then scrambled for cameras and camcorders. Then we all started looking for our children, but since Jillian was pretty much front and center I guessed it was her.

Enjoy the pictures.......as for trip details, I don't know where to begin. But, I will at least summarize the first few days with Jillian.

Tuesday March 27 - "Gotcha Day" or should I say "total meltdown day" Definitly one of the hardest days I've ever had. I found out Jillian had been in foster care for some time (still don't know exact dates) and had bonded with her care giver. This is both a pro and a con. The pro is that she seems developmentally in good shape and was in good health. She also clearly knows how to attach to someone and this is really important with institutionalized children. The downside is that she was seriously upset for the first several days at the change in environment etc.. I don't blame her one bit. I have read a lot about orphaned children and the grieving process when their only known constant is turned upside down. It was heartbreaking. She was a textbook case and although I felt helpless I at least felt I knew a little about what I was witnessing. She cried for the first 8 hours we were together and then closed up like a shell. There were no hugs, laughter, smiles or much emotion for the first few days.

Wednesday March 28 - Pretty uneventful. She was in evaluation mode. I just relied on the help and coaching from the other parents (most were repeat parents) as to how to do this whole parenting thing. I needed a bottle of formula today? Oh and I should have brought more than one diaper? What do I feed her besides formula? Is this the right mix of formula? etc..

Thursday March 29 - We spent the day in the hotel room. She was sick the entire day and although we were couped up it was a nice break from the hectic pace. It also helped reassure her that I was there to take care of her. I think this was a pivotal day when reflecting back on the trip.

Friday March 30 - Jillian was feeling better although my throat and right ear were still hurting and sore. She started to come out of her shell a bit but I was still thinking it would be days before I saw any affection from her.

Saturday March 31 - Is this the same child? Jillian's true personality showed itself big time. She giggled and interacted with me all day. We spent the evening diving into the pillows on the cushy bed and I managed to find a few places that when tickeled or pinched a little she would erupt in fits of giggles. Whew!

And from there things just got better. Jillian often slept through the night, although that hasn't happened since we've been home. She also has great resiliency. A bump on the noggin' or spill to the floor is just par for course and she gets up, brushes herself off and gets going again. She also wakes up pretty happy and is usually in giggle mode before I can change her diaper.

She was an amazing traveler as well. Not one peep on her first flight from Chongqing City to Guangzhou. And the 36 hour journey home last Friday was not bad either. The only meltdown came before the last flight from Newark to Charlotte and I almost had one too (delay after delay), so I can't hold that one against her. She slept about 8-9 hours on the 13 hour flight from Beijing to Newark so I was sitting pretty.

But it's been tough the last few days. Jillian and I both have stubborn rotten colds that we've had for about 4 days. And I had gotten a stomach bug the last couple days in Guangzhou and promptly passed that on to Frank upon arrival. Poor guy picks us up at 1:30am and ends up sick as a dog for 2 days. I'm still weak from being so sick and so trying to balance/find sleep with an active child has been a challenge. But, she's a great kiddo and I'm so hopeful for a fun springtime together. Oh and she's fine with the dogs. Luray's tail has knocked her over a few times but it's clear Jillian loves her. Rosebud hasn't come close to her so there is no relationship there just yet. And Frank's dog Halle is all about tongue licks so it goes over with mixed emotion when Halle starts licking Jillian in the face.

Enough for now. Enjoy the pics.

These are the eight little girls from Dianjiang. There were six additional families but their girls (and one boy) were from different provinces.

More pictures to come.......... Anne

I'm back and .........

2007-04-08T12:41:00.000-05:00

Hi All,

I am so sorry that I was not able to get back on the blog after I got Jillian. It was very hard to deal with the business centers in the hotels and keep up with a 16 month old at the same time.

For those that don't know I ended up traveling by myself. Although there were a lot of families with me I was with Jillian one on one. The good news is that she made it back alive to Charlotte with me so I must be doing something right. ; )

I'll post more later when Jillian has gone to bed.

Anne

Finally!

2007-03-26T19:26:00.000-05:00

Thanks to my wonderful travel mates, that brought way more than I did, for allowing me access to their computer so I can post. We had connection issues in Beijing so this is my first opportunity to touchbase.

We are now in Chongqing City and it was quite an entrance last night. This is the largest city in China. There are 6 million people in the city center alone. It was like driving into a futuristic city with neon bordered high rises as far as the eye can see. And Beijing was rediculous. They are in overdrive getting ready for the 2008 olympics and once again there are high rises everywhere. Seriously, everywhere. It says a lot when you can surprise a big group of Americans with development. And it was great to be able to see some of the arenas and event centers under construction.

I need to head out soon so here is the rest of what we have already seen in brief...

Went to The Forbidden City, several markets, Tiananmen Square, Great Wall, and lots of other small trips here and there. Today is the big day and within about 5 hours I will be meeting Jillian.

I'll be in touch with more details as soon as I'm able. Just know that I am staying in one of the nicest hotels I've ever seen and am loving it. Only the finest for Jillian. I'm in great shape and looking forward to the chaos of this afternoon.

Anne
PS. Dawn, thanks for the phone call. Great surprise.

Whoa......

2007-03-20T19:24:00.000-05:00

What a whirlwind the last week has been...whew.....this having a child stuff is tough, and she's not even here yet. I know, I know, the hard part hasn't even begun.

Couple quick items, THANK YOU to my friends and family for all your gifts and constant good wishes. I've said it before and I'll say it again, Jillian is one lucky girl. She has no idea how many folks are already supporting her and rooting for our little family.

Second item, there are 14 families in our group. We will be together in Beijing, but we will split up to go to different Provinces to get our children. We will meet up again in Guangzhou before flying back to the U.S.

MARCH 23 - Depart
MARCH 24 - Arrive in Beijing - Central Garden Hotel
MARCH 25 - acclimation and sightseeing – Tiananmen Square, Forbidden City, The Summer Palace and a few other stops
MARCH 26 - Visit The Great Wall before flying to Chongqing City - JW Marriot Hotel Chongqing
MARCH 27 - Meet Jillian....and simply put, I become a mom.
MARCH 28 - Shopping and time with all of our girls
MARCH 29 - April 1 - various activities, mostly elective
APRIL 2 - Flight to Guangzhou, Victory Hotel
APRIL 3 - Jillian’s medical check and visa photos
APRIL 4 - Visa document appt, group photos, river cruise
APRIL 5 - US Consulate appt
APRIL 6 - **** Head back home *********

I will do my absolute best to post to the blog while traveling. Cross your fingers I can download pictures too.

See you in China, Anne

Trip dates confirmed!!!!

2007-03-14T21:46:00.000-05:00

Gulp. I leave Friday, March 23 and return Friday, April 6. I'll update the site when I have my official itinerary. I just cannot quite grasp that in less than 2 wks I will have a daughter.

This and that...

2007-03-05T17:38:00.000-05:00

Well, I've had lots of emails asking about travel. I'm hoping to find out this week about approximate dates. The definite itinerary is at least another week out, I'm guessing. I'll post it as soon as I know something.

So what have I been doing the last month, since clearly I haven't updated my blog in a while? (And thank you to all those repeatedly reminding me of this). ; ) Well, I've been working my tail off to make sure I can leave my office, and know that all will be well. But, I'm actually more stressed about how I'm going to hold up without my clients, instead of them without me. It's been over 7 years since I was away from my desk for more than 5 days. But Bob (fellow advisor) will take good care of them, while Jillian will, no doubt, be taking care of me.

Fortunately, it hasn't been all work. I've also spent way too much time shopping and went from only one 18 month old outfit to about....well...a pretty full closet let's say,in less than a month. Since I am not a shopper, and generally think of it as a form of torture, this is quite the feat. AND I've found childrens consignment sales. Who knew! I was so out of my league this past Saturday at a GIANT church consignment sale here in Charlotte. I showed up with just my purse. So naive. But I quickly noticed that not only was there a line to get in, but everyone was holding rather large empty carrying sacks. I suspected they would not be empty long. So after a quick jaunt back to the car I got in line with my Harris Teeter grocery bags. Classy.

I found some really great bargains. My favorite was my child backpack. When new, they are over $100 easy. I got mine for $15. Slightly used, but in great shape. And since I'll, oh who am I kidding, Frank will really only be carrying her in it through the Fall, I felt like it was a steal. I also wondered aimlessly through rooms of toys. I didn't have a clue where to start and evidently it showed. A very nice lady took pity and helped me find some great developmental toys that will be great for Jillian. Also found some other wonderful items but I'll spare you.

In addition to working and shopping I've also cleaned out my closets from head to toe. I've culled the, almost never wear and oh I completely forgot I had that, down to just what I actually wear and use. My trunk is packed with items for Goodwill.

But the most fun I've had was my first baby shower. Very different being on the other side of things. All I had to do was show up, receive gifts and eat! Amazing concept. My girlfriends from college are just too generous. A little too generous perhaps, seeing as how they were very ambitious and felt I would be in need of four of the same booster seat. Yikes! Only 1 child at a time girls. ; ) Actually, I received many other wonderful gifts. Jillian has some great Aunties.

I have another shower this Friday evening so the fun continues.

Anne

2007-02-09T08:21:00.000-05:00

Just a quick update. There won't be too much too report for a little while. My expected travel date to leave for China is either March 22 or March 29. I will not know anything for sure until about 2 wks prior to the trip. And those are just targets. Even those dates could change. In the meantime it's just prep time. I have a huge To Do list so I'll be quite busy.

This past week has been a whirlwind. I managed to sit down with Jillian's new pediatrician on Wednesday and she had great things to say about her medical report. She said it was very comprehensive and she hasn't seen one quite that detailed in a long time. After looking at Chinese female growth charts she was able to determine that Jillian is right in the middle of the acceptable range, which is excellent. I think I mumbled something like "you go girl." Ahh, a mother's pride. There were other areas of discussion and observations but in a nutshell, she's all good, on paper. Makes me very happy and very hopeful.

AND I may have also found a picture of Jillian from last August. It was one of many posted on the Dianjiang Kids website. There's a great group of adoptive parents, family and friends that have spent a lot of time and energy to help this orphanage and the children in its care. If you would like to see some of the projects they have started and worked on then check out www.dianjiangkids.org. The past trip pictures are more for parents, so they are password protected, but there is still a lot for you to see on the other pages. Needless to say, I will be joining this group to help support my daughter's caregivers and the children that will come to/through Dianjiang.

And last but not least, a big thank you to all, for your amazing support and good wishes. Can't wait for you to meet Jillian.

It's decided...

2007-02-05T09:43:00.000-05:00

I had a dream last night and in it, my daughter was named Jillian. And interestingly enough the votes for Jillian just went in her favor for the first time yesterday. It really has been the favored name since the beginning, but I wanted to leave the door open until I saw her picture and heard her Chinese name. Jillian Mei Jiao (Lastname). I really like the sound of it. So mom, you can stop hunting through the family tree for additional name suggestions now. ; )

Thanks to all those that voted. This was a really fun thing to do.

The Latest

2007-02-04T14:57:00.000-05:00

While I now have a face, I'm still wrestling with the name. I'm pretty sure it's down to Charlotte or Jillian. I ruled out Elliot and Elyse for the fear someone might call her Ellie Mei. While I love my southern heritage, I have to draw the line somewhere.

Jiang Mei Jiao is currently residing at the Dianjiang Social Welfare institute in Sichuan Province, Chongqing municipality. 2 hrs from the city of Chongqing itself. The municipality has a population of 30 million people. It is southwest of Beijing and northwest of Guangzhou, our checkout point and location of the US Consulate. She is no where near the coast, but is very close to the ancient Yangtze River. Cynthia and I will be covering a lot of ground. A quick shout out and thank you to Cynthia for joining me on this adventure, one of my greatest friends, for 22 years.

Other news - I received translated exam records on Friday, Feb 2. The report is from the end of October 2006. Here's what I know about my little girl from this report...she weighed just over 17lbs, had 5 teeth, was crawling between 7 and 9 months and could walk some distance while holding onto furniture by 11 months. She could clap her hands and wave for bye bye. The report indicated that they had already taught her Ma Ma. They referred to her as Jiao Jiao and not Mei, so I think I will keep Mei Jiao as her U.S. legal middle name. I love the name Mei and it is also my mother's middle name (Mae). Oh and they checked off deep sleeper, but I'm not counting on that. Of course, if she is a deep sleeper then that would be a first for our family. Seriously crossing my fingers on that one.

I also loved that they checked off that she could tear paper. While it's probably a standard check, if true, then this is evidence that she and Luray will get along just fine. Probably a future bonding moment. Word to the wise, never teach your dog to unwrap gifts. Anything with paper around it is fair game in her book. Luray's an ultra laid back 10 year old Golden so I haven't been too worried about her adjustment. But I still suspect Rosebud will spend the first few weeks in the closet. Poor dog has no idea what's coming her way. I'll be watching her like a hawk.

That's all for now.....Anne

Welcome

2007-01-11T17:58:00.000-05:00

For those visiting my blog for the first time, this site is intended for family and friends that are interested in following my journey from time of referral, the trip to China and back. I'll be sure to add posts as news progresses so check back periodically for updates.

In addition, I look forward to sharing this incredible experience with others that may also be waiting their turn to meet their child. And I thank all those that have paved the way for waiting parents, such as myself, and have allowed us to share in their journeys as well. It's been a long and exciting two years and it's almost time for me to meet my child.

Anne